which she describes as “a wonderful,
empowering thing to do.”
Bean found that taking time off
taught him about himself.
“I realized that I like being busy.
It was the takeaway lesson. Now I
can see working my whole life. I’m
not geared, personalitywise, to sit
and hang out. And that was interesting to find out.”
FOR GLOBE-TROTTER JUDGE,
the risks of him and his
wife quitting their attorney jobs were outweighed
by the benefits. “The best
thing was getting rid of all the pressures, the chores we have in our ordinary lives,” he says.
Cordoza adds: “I like the message
we sent to our children: A job is not
everything. Time with your family
is No. 1.”
In between visiting the great pyramids, riding gondolas in Venice, observing tigers in India and surfing
in Bali, Judge and Cordoza home-schooled their kids. They brought
fourth- and fifth-grade workbooks
for math and grammar, and the
children had writing assignments
each day.
But the real education, Cordoza
explains, was off the pages.
“In Cambodia, for example, we
spent a lot of time talking about communism and the Khmer Rouge. We
went to the Killing Fields. We discussed why some countries were faring better than others. To us, that
was their education,” she says.
“I remember teaching them long
division in our Athens apartment.
But what resonates with me was
the conversations we had about
different systems of government.
They saw firsthand that communism sounds good but doesn’t really
work. We talked about science, politics, history.”
The Judge-Cordozas’ worldwide
trek was pricier than they’d expected but the family was able to afford
the trip because, like the others,
they’d always tried to live relatively
modestly. Still, they will now have
to work five to 10 years longer than
their friends. “But we felt like that
was OK,” Judge says. “This was the
time to live life at its fullest.”
After about eight months on the
“It’s so easy to get sucked back into multitasking, racing around.”
—CHRISTINA CORDOZA
road, Judge and Cordoza sensed it
would soon be time to return home,
mostly because their kids were tired.
At that point, Judge sent a half-dozen
e-mails to headhunters and other legal contacts. Three weeks later, a recruiter contacted him about what he
calls “a dream job.”
From a small island in Indonesia,
Judge interviewed for—and landed—the general counsel position
at BrightSource Energy Inc., a solar
plant design company in Oakland,
Calif. Soon after they returned home,
Cordoza picked up overflow work
for a law firm as well as temporary
assignments from Axiom Legal, a
contract attorney firm that provides
outsourced general counsel services.
Judge says he believes that being
in-house lawyers made it easier for
him and Cordoza to quit and return
to lawyering. “It would have been
harder to leave if we were partners
in a law firm and were leaving a
big client base.”
For Cordoza, the only downside
of time off was that she now struggles to return to “this Zen place”
that she reached while away. “It’s
so easy to get sucked back into
multitasking, racing around.”
Though Judge admits that he’d
rather be playing, he is also “really
excited to get back [to work]. My
job right now is really challenging
and demanding, but I can do it because my batteries are recharged.”
More importantly, Judge says, he
returned to lawyering with more
confidence.
“I’ve lost my paranoia about
losing a job. I’m not as worried. I
learned you can step away. Nothing
is fatal. You can come back and land
on your feet. It’s given me more
perspective.”
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Leslie A. Gordon, a former lawyer, is a
legal journalist based in San Francisco.